One of the major causes of spousal
disagreement is unsatisfactory sex. While a lot of men pride themselves in
being knowledgeable about a woman’s body, most women on their part cannot boast
of the same.
As a lady, have you ever found yourself
feeling clueless when it comes to playing the seduction game? Pleasing your man
isn’t rocket science, especially when you know where the hot spots are.
If you have been experiencing a little
difficulty in driving your man crazy in bed, it could be because you have
limited yourself to caressing only his package. Follow this guide to help you
explore other areas that will take him to the peak of ecstasy.
Neck:
Neck is a sensitive area and has several nerve endings. A sudden light touch
can give him an instant shiver. Next time, be sure to give him gentle and
breathy kisses to get him going.
Ear:
It’s really amazing how even a simple whisper in the ear can drive your man
crazy, so imagine if you use a little tongue. That will turn him on even more.
Start by talking sexy in a soft tone in his ears and follow it up with some
tongue action.
Behind the
ears: Don’t limit your whispering and licking
to inside the ear but also explore the area behind his ear, earlobe and top of
the ear. Bite the top of the earlobe lightly or breathe deep behind his ear
next time. It will definitely drive him crazy.
Bum:
A man’s bum is one of the most sensitive and highly ignored areas. Arouse him
with a little smack when he is least expecting it. Also, you can massage his
butt when you’re going down on him.
Skin:
The skin plays an important role in the arousal process. It is the largest
organ involved during sex. Rubbing and touching his skin improves blood
circulation which leads to arousal. So feel free to touch as many parts of your
partner’s skin as possible while in the sack. You could start with a massage
and keep the heat going by running your hands up and down his back, arms and
stomach during sex.
Feet:
Giving your guy a foot massage will not only turn him on but will also show how
much you care about him. Foot massages are a great balance of erotic and
romantic. Next time your man comes home tired after a long day, surprise him
with a foot massage and he might surprise you with a sexy time.
Tongue:
It’s no surprise how erotic and sensual a deep kiss is. It is the simplest way
to turn on your man. Don’t just stick to the same tongue motion and rhythm but
spice things up by mixing it up. You could start by circling your tongue around
his or lightly sucking on his tongue.
Lips:
As previously mentioned above, kissing is a great way to spice things up. You
can tease him by licking, sucking and gently biting his lips.
Inner
thighs: While his sex organ is obviously the
most erogenous part of his body, don’t shy away from exploring the area around
his package. The inner thighs are extremely sensitive areas; maximise pleasure
with a little stroking and licking.
Face:
Men get turned on by the slightest touch on their face. So next time you’re
kissing, sharing a joke or having sex, don’t ignore his face.
