When it comes to
patronizing the ‘women of easy virtues’, most people would swear that a lot of
married Nigerian men would not be guilty of such. Surprisingly, a recent survey
says the opposite.
when you look
around you, you would be surprised to see ‘very responsible’ Nigerian men and
men who supposedly look too innocent to even steal a glance at a sex worker
talk less of ‘doing it with her, find time to “hang out” with these women.
Shockingly, from recent survey, a good percentage of Nigerian men (especially
married ones), do patronize prostitutes.
The statistics
and reasons given as to why some of these men prefer sleeping with harlots will
shock you. Well, Naij.com spoke with a good number of Nigerian men and it would
be worthy to note at this point that some of these men have at one point or the
other paid for sex before.
With the
following 5 points, here are the real reasons why Nigerian men (and probably a
good number of men from every nooks and crannies of the world) prefer to pay
for sex.
1. Men Prefer To
Sleep With Hotter Women
Yes, you read
right. Most married Nigerian men complained that the moment a Nigerian woman is
married, she losses her guard and most times cannot even ‘try’ to be as radiant
as she used to be before she got married.
“I have been with
women and i must say that the hottest women I’ve ever had sex with is a sex
workers …Most of these harlots look sexy, ravishing and enticing. This kind of
‘hotness’ I am saying can only be prostitutes. My woman is too used to me to
starting feigning ‘hot’!, a top Lagos civil servant reveals.
Most Nigerian men
prefer a stunning woman to the one that is not properly dressed.
2. When They Pay
For It, They Derive More Pleasure.
Every man wants
to get every drop of satisfaction from the money he paid for a job. Most men
reveal that they feel more comfortable asking for different styles and sexual
postures from a prostitutes without their ego being tampered with.
I am paying for
it, so I make sure I get the best out of it. And more so, I can ask her to do
any style for me without me being looked at as a pervert. Asking her to do what
I want won’t make me lose my respect and lots of other things which i can make
known here’‘, 42-year-old Emeka revealed.
Most of them said
there’s something very hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and
get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he paid a prostitute
once so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to being
more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid
for sex. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. Men love
fantasy.
Trying new things
really matter to men a lot when sex is concerned. This is because at a point in
time, it gets boring and it is the fantasy and sexual adventures that you try
out that keeps you going. So most men go out to have this adventure if they
cannot get it at home.
“I like to try
things. When I pay a prostitute, I’m not worried about what I ask for. Nothing
shocks them”, Mr Shola, a 45 year old banker revealed.
4. Men like the
fastest route to having sex.
“Getting a
prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can choose [the woman you want]
before you purchase, then they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier.”
All men used
different methods of visiting prostitutes. While some revealed they used some
websites, a larger percentage revealed that they visited a brothel and another
set got the prostitute’s number via personal connection. But they all agreed:
it was the quickest way to get sex when they felt the urge.
5. We want to
avoid complications.
Men prefer a
sexual experience with no drama and no commitment whatsoever. For the married
ones, they do not want sex that they have to beg for, men prefer sex without
all the promises and all.
“We want to have
sex without all the drama. I just want to have sex without the need to made you
to beg for it. I want sex without my wife reminding me all what needs to be
done in the house instead of having sex at the moment”, another middle-aged,
Lagos-based man revealed.
What do you think
about these reasons?
Are they good
enough reasons for men to patronize prostitutes?
What do you think
wives can do to prevent this?
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